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	<title>Comments on: How I almost married my AIM lover</title>
	<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/</link>
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	<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 04:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19038</link>
		<author>Andrew</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 01:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Your advice at the end makes absolutely no sense.  The guy left you standing at the altar, and you say that random AIM messages can be a good thing?  Shouldn't you be advising people to close it down?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your advice at the end makes absolutely no sense.  The guy left you standing at the altar, and you say that random AIM messages can be a good thing?  Shouldn&#8217;t you be advising people to close it down?</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Q.</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19043</link>
		<author>Dave Q.</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 05:05:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19043</guid>
					<description>Wow.  Is this a true story?  All that in such a short time and then at the end he stands you up at the altar?  Yikes.  That is traumatic...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  Is this a true story?  All that in such a short time and then at the end he stands you up at the altar?  Yikes.  That is traumatic&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: scott</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19071</link>
		<author>scott</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 21:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19071</guid>
					<description>Wow Heather.... I don't blame him..you are beautiful

By the way remember me?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Heather&#8230;. I don&#8217;t blame him..you are beautiful</p>
<p>By the way remember me?</p>
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		<title>By: scott</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19073</link>
		<author>scott</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 22:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Oh woops...sorry Heather, I was on a call and hadn't read the last paragraph. That sucks..his loss for sure...take care...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh woops&#8230;sorry Heather, I was on a call and hadn&#8217;t read the last paragraph. That sucks..his loss for sure&#8230;take care&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: paul mastronminiamasi</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19097</link>
		<author>paul mastronminiamasi</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:41:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19097</guid>
					<description>For such a pretty girl, you sound desperate.</description>
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		<title>By: Nick Phillips</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19112</link>
		<author>Nick Phillips</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 08:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19112</guid>
					<description>I'd have to agree with Andrew on this one. It's a little contradictory, especially at the end. I'd say you should be advising people to be a little more careful, ya?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d have to agree with Andrew on this one. It&#8217;s a little contradictory, especially at the end. I&#8217;d say you should be advising people to be a little more careful, ya?</p>
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		<title>By: Jess McCann</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19128</link>
		<author>Jess McCann</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 17:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19128</guid>
					<description>Hi Heather-

Someone referred me to your blog. If you would like to figure out how to find the right guy for you, and then get him to commit, email me at coach@jessmccann.com

Jess</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Heather-</p>
<p>Someone referred me to your blog. If you would like to figure out how to find the right guy for you, and then get him to commit, email me at <a href="mailto:coach@jessmccann.com">coach@jessmccann.com</a></p>
<p>Jess</p>
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		<title>By: Wow</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19132</link>
		<author>Wow</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19132</guid>
					<description>Well that is awful. I met my wife online and things worked out great.
Charles PIsano 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well that is awful. I met my wife online and things worked out great.<br />
Charles PIsano</p>
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		<title>By: vonzie</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19168</link>
		<author>vonzie</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 23:38:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19168</guid>
					<description>Maybe you should use eharmony</description>
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		<title>By: Arvind Devalia</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19188</link>
		<author>Arvind Devalia</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 22:17:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19188</guid>
					<description>Better luck next time Heather :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Better luck next time Heather <img src='http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Chuck from NY</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19196</link>
		<author>Chuck from NY</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 11:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19196</guid>
					<description>Hi Heather!  
Sorry it didn't work out.  Sometimes life smacks us in the face without explanation.  You DESERVE BETTER.  ...but have you hear from him since?  (Did something "unfortunate happen to him" beyond his control.  I hope not for his sake.)
For your sake, don't loose hope.  Call me. lol
Be Well.
Chuck</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Heather!<br />
Sorry it didn&#8217;t work out.  Sometimes life smacks us in the face without explanation.  You DESERVE BETTER.  &#8230;but have you hear from him since?  (Did something &#8220;unfortunate happen to him&#8221; beyond his control.  I hope not for his sake.)<br />
For your sake, don&#8217;t loose hope.  Call me. lol<br />
Be Well.<br />
Chuck</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19219</link>
		<author>Anonymous</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 02:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>WOW....I met my boyfriend at Agelesscupid.com....He is much oder than me.....BUT hE IS a good man....Love him so much</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW&#8230;.I met my boyfriend at Agelesscupid.com&#8230;.He is much oder than me&#8230;..BUT hE IS a good man&#8230;.Love him so much</p>
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		<title>By: benning</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19290</link>
		<author>benning</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 13:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>When my Ex agreed to move to my home I paid to get a bigger apartment, paid to fly up to Wyoming, paid to move her and her things all the way back to Florida. I paid quite a bit - and was deeply in love, too - including paying for her Xmas gifts for her kids and grandkids, and so on. When she decided I was never going to be more than a poor man, and left, I was heartbroken. But now I only have to pay for myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When my Ex agreed to move to my home I paid to get a bigger apartment, paid to fly up to Wyoming, paid to move her and her things all the way back to Florida. I paid quite a bit - and was deeply in love, too - including paying for her Xmas gifts for her kids and grandkids, and so on. When she decided I was never going to be more than a poor man, and left, I was heartbroken. But now I only have to pay for myself.</p>
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		<title>By: Jean-Luc Picard</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19326</link>
		<author>Jean-Luc Picard</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 18:25:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19326</guid>
					<description>It was his loss. Anybody would be lucky to meet a good looking girl like you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was his loss. Anybody would be lucky to meet a good looking girl like you.</p>
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		<title>By: Alfa</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19420</link>
		<author>Alfa</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Mar 2008 00:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19420</guid>
					<description>If I were Heather, I'll go find a with to curse him. Or no, I'll curse him myself. Just kidding.

Indeed, you'll never know what small talks/IM'ing brings - either your prince charming or a runaway groom. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I were Heather, I&#8217;ll go find a with to curse him. Or no, I&#8217;ll curse him myself. Just kidding.</p>
<p>Indeed, you&#8217;ll never know what small talks/IM&#8217;ing brings - either your prince charming or a runaway groom. <img src='http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Alfa</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19421</link>
		<author>Alfa</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Mar 2008 00:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19421</guid>
					<description>Erratum: 

I'll go find a witch (not a with) to curse him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erratum: </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll go find a witch (not a with) to curse him.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew Reynolds</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19475</link>
		<author>Andrew Reynolds</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 02:31:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Things happen for a reason. That's a very traumatic experience, but I'm sure there's someone out there who is really made for her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Things happen for a reason. That&#8217;s a very traumatic experience, but I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s someone out there who is really made for her.</p>
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		<title>By: Webhostingpad</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19494</link>
		<author>Webhostingpad</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 12:35:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I have met up with a girl 5 years ago and dating with her after I know her just for 1 week. Then we have been togather for 3 weeks and we break up. poor me.. poor me... distance is our problem..

louiss</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have met up with a girl 5 years ago and dating with her after I know her just for 1 week. Then we have been togather for 3 weeks and we break up. poor me.. poor me&#8230; distance is our problem..</p>
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		<title>By: April</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19502</link>
		<author>April</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 15:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>The last paragraph through me for a loop! 

I've heard of some online relationships ending in a great marriage, and I've heard of some of them ending in disaster. Dating is tough no matter where you meet. Thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The last paragraph through me for a loop! </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard of some online relationships ending in a great marriage, and I&#8217;ve heard of some of them ending in disaster. Dating is tough no matter where you meet. Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: tommy rettig</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19526</link>
		<author>tommy rettig</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 02:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Great photo. You look awesome. Nice!</description>
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		<title>By: Yurtdisi Egitim</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19633</link>
		<author>Yurtdisi Egitim</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 16:44:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>do you know any other information about this subject in other languages?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>do you know any other information about this subject in other languages?</p>
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		<title>By: fish</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19687</link>
		<author>fish</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 19:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hey i remember you. lol that is one crazy story. </description>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19862</link>
		<author>Steve</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 17:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Heather,

I agree things happen for a reason, but that could have just as easily have worked out as it did not. The final outcome was beyond your control.

My wife and I met in the most random way. During St. Patrick's weekend over six years ago my ship (I was in the Navy at the time) pulled into Boston for four days. On the day that connected me to my wife I was on duty on the ship, but some friends of mine met some friends of hers. Throughout the month that followed a friend of mine had been talking to a friend of hers, which led to her and two friends flying down to Virginia Beach for the weekend.

During that weekend I volunteered to work for the friend who was having them fly in and never intended to meet them. The day they flew in I asked my roommate if he wanted to go to the "strip" which is the area by the beach for lunch. After getting to the beach we met up with the friend who was having them fly down. He had no idea they would be there, but suggested we go to Chic's cafe for lunch.

Sparing some details of Chic's cafe, her friends invited me out with them that night. That night ended up with (my now wife) and I talking most the night.

Ok, how does this relate, hold on a second I'm getting there... I'm getting there. The next day I worked at could not get her off my mind, so the next morning I stopped by her hotel room and asked if she wanted to hang out (I know a gutsy move considering it was three girls on vacation), but she said not then, but later they would meet up with us (My friends and I). That night we all went out and had a great time.

The next morning the girls were flying out, so we escorted them to the airpot... now I'll get to the point (and this is to anyone with a long distance relationship). We started a long distance relationship that had her flying down once a month for over a year. If our relationship revolved around who was paying there was no way we could have stayed together. It's not that she had more money, but I was just about to purchase a condo and didn't have the resources to fly her down.

This resulted in her paying for almost everything at the time. Fast forward a year (thank goodness for cell phones and text messages) and I presented an engagement ring to her (I called and asked her parents individually because they were not together, which was met with mixed answeres, but ended up with permission), a few months later I deployed overseas for a six months. Before deploying we discussed moving to Texas together after I returned (I gave her the choice of orders to the Northeast or Texas... and she chose Texas (I had not told her I had extended onboard the ship before meeting her to orders to Texas, because at that point I knew I could get orders anywhere I wanted).

This is getting long so I'll get to the details: After a year and a half of having a long distance relationship I know that has given our relationship the base that has allowed us the relationship building needed before being married, the communication that is needed for a successful marriage, and the commitment to each other that only two soul mates can find.

I'm not saying instant or long distant relationship will work for everyone, but if both parties are committed to it and it is meant to be, then it will happen despite obstacles in the way.

I guess I'm trying to say don't shut down hope (or close that window) just because the relationship does not come from a traditional source. It results from the two people committed to each other.

Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,</p>
<p>I agree things happen for a reason, but that could have just as easily have worked out as it did not. The final outcome was beyond your control.</p>
<p>My wife and I met in the most random way. During St. Patrick&#8217;s weekend over six years ago my ship (I was in the Navy at the time) pulled into Boston for four days. On the day that connected me to my wife I was on duty on the ship, but some friends of mine met some friends of hers. Throughout the month that followed a friend of mine had been talking to a friend of hers, which led to her and two friends flying down to Virginia Beach for the weekend.</p>
<p>During that weekend I volunteered to work for the friend who was having them fly in and never intended to meet them. The day they flew in I asked my roommate if he wanted to go to the &#8220;strip&#8221; which is the area by the beach for lunch. After getting to the beach we met up with the friend who was having them fly down. He had no idea they would be there, but suggested we go to Chic&#8217;s cafe for lunch.</p>
<p>Sparing some details of Chic&#8217;s cafe, her friends invited me out with them that night. That night ended up with (my now wife) and I talking most the night.</p>
<p>Ok, how does this relate, hold on a second I&#8217;m getting there&#8230; I&#8217;m getting there. The next day I worked at could not get her off my mind, so the next morning I stopped by her hotel room and asked if she wanted to hang out (I know a gutsy move considering it was three girls on vacation), but she said not then, but later they would meet up with us (My friends and I). That night we all went out and had a great time.</p>
<p>The next morning the girls were flying out, so we escorted them to the airpot&#8230; now I&#8217;ll get to the point (and this is to anyone with a long distance relationship). We started a long distance relationship that had her flying down once a month for over a year. If our relationship revolved around who was paying there was no way we could have stayed together. It&#8217;s not that she had more money, but I was just about to purchase a condo and didn&#8217;t have the resources to fly her down.</p>
<p>This resulted in her paying for almost everything at the time. Fast forward a year (thank goodness for cell phones and text messages) and I presented an engagement ring to her (I called and asked her parents individually because they were not together, which was met with mixed answeres, but ended up with permission), a few months later I deployed overseas for a six months. Before deploying we discussed moving to Texas together after I returned (I gave her the choice of orders to the Northeast or Texas&#8230; and she chose Texas (I had not told her I had extended onboard the ship before meeting her to orders to Texas, because at that point I knew I could get orders anywhere I wanted).</p>
<p>This is getting long so I&#8217;ll get to the details: After a year and a half of having a long distance relationship I know that has given our relationship the base that has allowed us the relationship building needed before being married, the communication that is needed for a successful marriage, and the commitment to each other that only two soul mates can find.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying instant or long distant relationship will work for everyone, but if both parties are committed to it and it is meant to be, then it will happen despite obstacles in the way.</p>
<p>I guess I&#8217;m trying to say don&#8217;t shut down hope (or close that window) just because the relationship does not come from a traditional source. It results from the two people committed to each other.</p>
<p>Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Kiss dont Miss</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19952</link>
		<author>Kiss dont Miss</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 09:36:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19952</guid>
					<description>WOW!!! From the beginning till the end I was on the edge of my seat! I could have NEVER guessed what the story's end was. 

To me it sounds absolutely unreasonble! You dated, you got to know each other close, and then OOPS - he never appears again! What was on his mind?! 

Maybe it's really true that men and women come from different planets?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW!!! From the beginning till the end I was on the edge of my seat! I could have NEVER guessed what the story&#8217;s end was. </p>
<p>To me it sounds absolutely unreasonble! You dated, you got to know each other close, and then OOPS - he never appears again! What was on his mind?! </p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s really true that men and women come from different planets?</p>
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		<title>By: felix</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19961</link>
		<author>felix</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-19961</guid>
					<description>hi sweet heather,d guy missed out! u ar captivating,everymans dream.giving such opportunity to spend a lifetime with a damsel like u,i won't compromise it with anything else.sweetheart,u are really georgous.i will really love to hear from you.[femlah@yahoo.com] it will really be a pleasure! with fondest regards.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi sweet heather,d guy missed out! u ar captivating,everymans dream.giving such opportunity to spend a lifetime with a damsel like u,i won&#8217;t compromise it with anything else.sweetheart,u are really georgous.i will really love to hear from you.[femlah@yahoo.com] it will really be a pleasure! with fondest regards.</p>
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		<title>By: ToesCrossed.com - The 5 Dates Challenge</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20289</link>
		<author>ToesCrossed.com - The 5 Dates Challenge</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 17:09:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20289</guid>
					<description>Heather, I'm sure you know this now,  but with matters of the heart it sure is better to walk than to run. If it is for real then love will be around next week and next month.

You' ll do okay though! I am sure of this.
</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, I&#8217;m sure you know this now,  but with matters of the heart it sure is better to walk than to run. If it is for real then love will be around next week and next month.</p>
<p>You&#8217; ll do okay though! I am sure of this.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20317</link>
		<author>David</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 04:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20317</guid>
					<description>I met my soulmate online but not quite as rushed as you did.  You are an attractive girl so I dont think finding eligble men will be a problem.  Like you, I have a blog on the subject as well because it can work.  Amazing story all the same.
goodluck</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I met my soulmate online but not quite as rushed as you did.  You are an attractive girl so I dont think finding eligble men will be a problem.  Like you, I have a blog on the subject as well because it can work.  Amazing story all the same.<br />
goodluck</p>
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		<title>By: Bobo T</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20331</link>
		<author>Bobo T</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 10:34:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20331</guid>
					<description>the guy lost a precious opportunity.pls may i know you better.iam a kool guy wit lot of experience about jilting like you because i was poor then but now i am ok financially but need someone reliable and trustworthy.tell u more about me wit you response.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the guy lost a precious opportunity.pls may i know you better.iam a kool guy wit lot of experience about jilting like you because i was poor then but now i am ok financially but need someone reliable and trustworthy.tell u more about me wit you response.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20356</link>
		<author>Jonathan</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 18:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20356</guid>
					<description>that is sad.  best of luck to you in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that is sad.  best of luck to you in the future.</p>
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		<title>By: chelle</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20474</link>
		<author>chelle</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20474</guid>
					<description>boy is that a crazy story!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>boy is that a crazy story!</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20552</link>
		<author>Anonymous</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 17:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20552</guid>
					<description>Did you at least still keep the ring.....How much is it worth?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you at least still keep the ring&#8230;..How much is it worth?</p>
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		<title>By: Kenny</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20704</link>
		<author>Kenny</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 18:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20704</guid>
					<description>That's horrifying. Where is the closure in the story. You can't end it like that. You guys lived together. What do you mean he didn't show up???? You have two rings? Have you spoken to him? What does he have to say about himself?

I don't buy that this is a true story.

Kenny
ny2texas@gmail.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s horrifying. Where is the closure in the story. You can&#8217;t end it like that. You guys lived together. What do you mean he didn&#8217;t show up???? You have two rings? Have you spoken to him? What does he have to say about himself?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t buy that this is a true story.</p>
<p>Kenny<br />
<a href="mailto:ny2texas@gmail.com">ny2texas@gmail.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: DatingIdol</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20956</link>
		<author>DatingIdol</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-20956</guid>
					<description>Wow Heather…. You look awesome!</description>
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		<title>By: Realistic</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-21523</link>
		<author>Realistic</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 18:49:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-21523</guid>
					<description>I tend to be very skeptical when I read such stuff:
- did you just made up the punch line to leave us with a faked feeling of surprise?
or
- did that really happen?

In both cases this was such a waste of time</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tend to be very skeptical when I read such stuff:<br />
- did you just made up the punch line to leave us with a faked feeling of surprise?<br />
or<br />
- did that really happen?</p>
<p>In both cases this was such a waste of time</p>
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		<title>By: Sweetiepie</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-26029</link>
		<author>Sweetiepie</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 13:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-26029</guid>
					<description>I had similar experiences with online dating.  I got some criticism about this recently, but I truely believe it is easier for people to lie about who they are online than in person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had similar experiences with online dating.  I got some criticism about this recently, but I truely believe it is easier for people to lie about who they are online than in person.</p>
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		<title>By: Dondon</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-27065</link>
		<author>Dondon</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 19:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-27065</guid>
					<description>For such a stunning and a beautiful girl like heather, I think you are desperate 

"“I” paid for everything!"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For such a stunning and a beautiful girl like heather, I think you are desperate </p>
<p>&#8220;“I” paid for everything!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: joe</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-28505</link>
		<author>joe</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 19:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-28505</guid>
					<description>another one bites the dust</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>another one bites the dust</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-30866</link>
		<author>Lauren</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 00:55:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-30866</guid>
					<description>Heather, Such a sad story but there is hope! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, Such a sad story but there is hope!</p>
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		<title>By: ronak</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-32179</link>
		<author>ronak</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2008 16:35:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-32179</guid>
					<description>wow i like thats type of story</description>
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		<title>By: Successindating</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-35204</link>
		<author>Successindating</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 01:14:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-35204</guid>
					<description>I don't believe this one bit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t believe this one bit.</p>
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		<title>By: davidbusby@live.com</title>
		<link>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-37234</link>
		<author>davidbusby@live.com</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2008/03/04/how-i-almost-married-my-aim-lover/#comment-37234</guid>
					<description>love you hot u sex hot</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love you hot u sex hot</p>
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