Comments on: Are You Permanently Celibate? http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/ True Dating Horror Stories and Tips from Real People Sat, 11 Oct 2008 09:17:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: Poppa Kap http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4091 Poppa Kap Sun, 02 Sep 2007 17:07:51 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4091 In the rap world, we have a name for women like these. They're called PT's. This lady you described must have some weird trips going on in her head, teasing bros and then not delivering. She needs a good shrink, not a date. She's just into using guys and obviously has a deep-seated hatred toward men. In the rap world, we have a name for women like these. They’re called PT’s. This lady you described must have some weird trips going on in her head, teasing bros and then not delivering. She needs a good shrink, not a date. She’s just into using guys and obviously has a deep-seated hatred toward men.

]]> By: Maureen http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4121 Maureen Mon, 03 Sep 2007 01:10:51 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4121 Hey Poppa, in my experience there are as many men who treat women like a mongrel dog as there are women who use their private parts to tease and control men. They are both wrong. Let's get to a place in our society where respect for each other exists especially in our sexual relationships. Let it be ok for either party to say they're horny and want sex and the other say, "yeah, ok," even if now isn't the best time. Anyone can make time for a quickie. As far as permanently celibate goes - even the Catholic Church can't keep 'em down on the farm. These people are dreamin'! We're all created as sexual beings. Hey Poppa, in my experience there are as many men who treat women like a mongrel dog as there are women who use their private parts to tease and control men. They are both wrong. Let’s get to a place in our society where respect for each other exists especially in our sexual relationships. Let it be ok for either party to say they’re horny and want sex and the other say, “yeah, ok,” even if now isn’t the best time. Anyone can make time for a quickie.
As far as permanently celibate goes - even the Catholic Church can’t keep ‘em down on the farm. These people are dreamin’! We’re all created as sexual beings.

]]> By: Alex http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4201 Alex Tue, 04 Sep 2007 00:40:07 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4201 Hmm... I heard this sentence before: "The first thing everyone need when they woke up from bed is love. Everyone needs to be loved." Maybe in the past relationship, she experienced some huge breakdowns and she made that decision. I hope she will open up herself for new possibilities. Making a decision to be permanently celibate don't really benefit her. From her case, she still want to be loved (can see from her interest in dating). But not wanting to go further is not really true to her. Hmm… I heard this sentence before:

“The first thing everyone need when they woke up from bed is love. Everyone needs to be loved.”

Maybe in the past relationship, she experienced some huge breakdowns and she made that decision. I hope she will open up herself for new possibilities. Making a decision to be permanently celibate don’t really benefit her.

From her case, she still want to be loved (can see from her interest in dating). But not wanting to go further is not really true to her.

]]> By: Jennifer McKenzie http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4211 Jennifer McKenzie Tue, 04 Sep 2007 03:06:09 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4211 Um, I have to say that want to date a man because <i>"It makes a huge difference when we go out that they want me even though they know they can’t have me."</i> is a little....mean. I don't mean that she should sleep with them and at least she's being up front about it, but I do think that "dating" is supposed to be about finding a relationship. Companionship and dating are DIFFERENT. Companionship is hanging with someone and going to movies together which can be a big part of dating. Dating, however, is SUPPOSED to include a possibility of a future. I think you handled it just right. Um, I have to say that want to date a man because “It makes a huge difference when we go out that they want me even though they know they can’t have me.”
is a little….mean.
I don’t mean that she should sleep with them and at least she’s being up front about it, but I do think that “dating” is supposed to be about finding a relationship. Companionship and dating are DIFFERENT. Companionship is hanging with someone and going to movies together which can be a big part of dating. Dating, however, is SUPPOSED to include a possibility of a future.
I think you handled it just right.

]]> By: Pam http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4245 Pam Tue, 04 Sep 2007 14:31:03 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4245 Just wanted to leave a note that I think your business must be fascinating! I enjoyed both this article and your blog. Just wanted to leave a note that I think your business must be fascinating! I enjoyed both this article and your blog.

]]> By: eye-contact http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4252 eye-contact Tue, 04 Sep 2007 17:31:23 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4252 Come on people, I could see from her "permanently celibate" message she is lieing like hell. She tries to make her situation (that of a single woman who hasn't had sex in ages) sound funny by using those expressions. But the truth is, she is a FAT and UGLY WOMAN, hidding behind a monitor and pretending she's teasing men and that she's unreachable. Come on people, I could see from her “permanently celibate” message she is lieing like hell. She tries to make her situation (that of a single woman who hasn’t had sex in ages) sound funny by using those expressions.

But the truth is, she is a FAT and UGLY WOMAN, hidding behind a monitor and pretending she’s teasing men and that she’s unreachable.

]]> By: Jennifer McKenzie http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4361 Jennifer McKenzie Thu, 06 Sep 2007 01:08:55 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4361 <i>But the truth is, she is a FAT and UGLY WOMAN, hidding behind a monitor and pretending she’s teasing men and that she’s unreachable.</i> Is she? Mmmmm. That would make her a bit more sympathetic. But it's much more likely that she enjoys the titillation of the chase and doesn't want the emotional "mess" of being caught. There are people, male and female, like that. But the truth is, she is a FAT and UGLY WOMAN, hidding behind a monitor and pretending she’s teasing men and that she’s unreachable.

Is she? Mmmmm. That would make her a bit more sympathetic. But it’s much more likely that she enjoys the titillation of the chase and doesn’t want the emotional “mess” of being caught. There are people, male and female, like that.

]]> By: JAMES HOWELL http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4372 JAMES HOWELL Thu, 06 Sep 2007 03:31:02 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4372 I'M A SINGLE MALE, AGE 48. I AM HAPPY BEING SINGLE, TO A POINT. I'VE LEARNED THROUGH THE YEARS A THING OR TWO ABOUT HAVING SEX ON THE FIRST DATE. IT ALWAYS ENDS IN A DIVORCE. WE NEVER GOT TO KNOW EACH OTHER LIKE IF WE WOULD HAVE DATED. I'VE ALSO LEARNED TO PUT THE SEAT DOWN AFTER I USE THE BATH ROOM. BOTH PARTS OF IT THAT WAY THE NEXT PERSON HAS TO LIFT AT LEAST ONE PART UP TO USE IT. I’M A SINGLE MALE, AGE 48. I AM HAPPY BEING SINGLE, TO A POINT. I’VE LEARNED THROUGH THE YEARS A THING OR TWO ABOUT HAVING SEX ON THE FIRST DATE. IT ALWAYS ENDS IN A DIVORCE. WE NEVER GOT TO KNOW EACH OTHER LIKE IF WE WOULD HAVE DATED. I’VE ALSO LEARNED TO PUT THE SEAT DOWN AFTER I USE THE BATH ROOM. BOTH PARTS OF IT THAT WAY THE NEXT PERSON HAS TO LIFT AT LEAST ONE PART UP TO USE IT.

]]> By: eye-contact http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4382 eye-contact Thu, 06 Sep 2007 05:03:38 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4382 It wouldn't necessarily make her more simpatethic. There was an episode in Sex and the city about this topic (people trying to make fun of their situation so it wouldn't semm they make a big fuss out of being single, or without children etc.). The fact is, man is a sociable animal, that is why the single and dating sites are full of people looking for the one. No sane person would say it's good going back to an empty house or apartment (animals don't count as a companion,you all see why) and eating alone and sleeping alone. Loneliness is the worst thing that could happen to a human, especially at a certain age, when you just want to sit back and relax and enjoy what's left of your time. So, to cut to the chase, STOP PRETENDING YOU'RE HAPPY TO BE SINGLE, it's not. THAT'S WHY ANTIDEPRESSIVE WERE INVENTED. It wouldn’t necessarily make her more simpatethic. There was an episode in Sex and the city about this topic (people trying to make fun of their situation so it wouldn’t semm they make a big fuss out of being single, or without children etc.). The fact is, man is a sociable animal, that is why the single and dating sites are full of people looking for the one. No sane person would say it’s good going back to an empty house or apartment (animals don’t count as a companion,you all see why) and eating alone and sleeping alone. Loneliness is the worst thing that could happen to a human, especially at a certain age, when you just want to sit back and relax and enjoy what’s left of your time. So, to cut to the chase, STOP PRETENDING YOU’RE HAPPY TO BE SINGLE, it’s not. THAT’S WHY ANTIDEPRESSIVE WERE INVENTED.

]]> By: friend http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4426 friend Thu, 06 Sep 2007 18:41:13 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4426 She reminds me of a friend of mine who after each disastrous affair decides that she quits men forever. Bu the similarities end here - my friend never keeps her promise and she constantly gets involved with the most awful guys. Well, maybe for her sexual abstinence will do good. :) She reminds me of a friend of mine who after each disastrous affair decides that she quits men forever. Bu the similarities end here - my friend never keeps her promise and she constantly gets involved with the most awful guys. Well, maybe for her sexual abstinence will do good. :)

]]> By: Caz http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4535 Caz Sat, 08 Sep 2007 09:57:53 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4535 I have to agree with the comment. I am divorced after 18 years of marriage. My last 3 years involved living with a gorgeous guy that was the biggest womaniser on this earth that eventually turned out to be not so gorgeous. I would have to say I am very happy to be single at this point in time and probably the happiest I have been in a long time. It has given me the time to concentrate on the more important things in life like finding out who I am really as a person and enjoying and valueing the time I spend with my two beautiful children. I have to agree with the comment. I am divorced after 18 years of marriage. My last 3 years involved living with a gorgeous guy that was the biggest womaniser on this earth that eventually turned out to be not so gorgeous. I would have to say I am very happy to be single at this point in time and probably the happiest I have been in a long time. It has given me the time to concentrate on the more important things in life like finding out who I am really as a person and enjoying and valueing the time I spend with my two beautiful children.

]]> By: DrowseyMonkey http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4599 DrowseyMonkey Mon, 10 Sep 2007 01:47:12 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4599 I'm happily single. There's a myth out there that women or men who are happily single are not "open" enough, hate the opposite sex, need therapy or they're just lying. LOL I guess that could be true for some people, but I know lots of people who are happily single (both men & women). I don't hate men, I just don't want to live with one again - no offense to anyone who wants to co-habitate, it's just not for me. And, living alone does not equate to being lonely! Sheesh people! And I'm not ugly or on anti-depressants...lmao. It takes lots of different types of people to make a world...that includes those who want to live with another person and those who are happy on their own, like me. :-) I’m happily single. There’s a myth out there that women or men who are happily single are not “open” enough, hate the opposite sex, need therapy or they’re just lying. LOL I guess that could be true for some people, but I know lots of people who are happily single (both men & women). I don’t hate men, I just don’t want to live with one again - no offense to anyone who wants to co-habitate, it’s just not for me. And, living alone does not equate to being lonely! Sheesh people! And I’m not ugly or on anti-depressants…lmao. It takes lots of different types of people to make a world…that includes those who want to live with another person and those who are happy on their own, like me. :-)

]]> By: BillyWarhol http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4843 BillyWarhol Fri, 14 Sep 2007 04:55:51 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-4843 LOLLLLLL Mandy sounds like my ex gf!! Just my Luck!! ;)) I'm Hoping + Praying that by visiting the 15 Min Date I'll soon be ending my own Celibacy + Enjoying that Wonderful pastime called SEX* LOLLLLLL

Mandy sounds like my ex gf!!

Just my Luck!!

;))

I’m Hoping + Praying that by visiting the 15 Min Date I’ll soon be ending my own Celibacy + Enjoying that Wonderful pastime called SEX*

]]> By: Kenny http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-12928 Kenny Fri, 30 Nov 2007 18:03:58 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-12928 Just wanted to leave a note that I think your business must be fascinating! I enjoyed both this article and your blog. Ken Just wanted to leave a note that I think your business must be fascinating! I enjoyed both this article and your blog.

Ken

]]> By: jeremy http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-15214 jeremy Thu, 03 Jan 2008 13:48:15 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-15214 I really enjoyed your article and your blog keep up the great work. I have to agree with the one comment about sex on the first date is a really bad thing and in most cases does end in a divorce or breakup. I really enjoyed your article and your blog keep up the great work. I have to agree with the one comment about sex on the first date is a really bad thing and in most cases does end in a divorce or breakup.

]]> By: Scott http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-15466 Scott Mon, 07 Jan 2008 02:41:45 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-15466 Nice article, I really enjoyed it. Nice article, I really enjoyed it.

]]> By: Kuurt http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-19496 Kuurt Mon, 17 Mar 2008 13:03:37 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-19496 The Best!!! The Best!!!

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-20200 Anonymous Mon, 31 Mar 2008 02:01:59 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-20200 Maureen, can you provide scientific, logical or some kind of reasonable evidence that we all need pleasure and passion? I am a celibate guy. Not necessarily permanent, but as for myself I live very happily that way and I don't think I need sex at all. What if I just want to not belong to the 60% of divorces? Should I change my status to married in the future, if happens, I still think sex will have nothing to do with my change, but love and God's determination that I don't continue humanly alone. Maureen, can you provide scientific, logical or some kind of reasonable evidence that we all need pleasure and passion?

I am a celibate guy. Not necessarily permanent, but as for myself I live very happily that way and I don’t think I need sex at all. What if I just want to not belong to the 60% of divorces? Should I change my status to married in the future, if happens, I still think sex will have nothing to do with my change, but love and God’s determination that I don’t continue humanly alone.

]]> By: Ronda http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-31894 Ronda Sat, 21 Jun 2008 00:56:21 +0000 http://www.15minutedate.com/blog/2007/09/01/are-you-permanently-celibate/#comment-31894 LOLLL Everyone has a choice and she choice whatever she wanted.... LOLLL
Everyone has a choice and she choice whatever she wanted….

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